For caregivers in ten years or more
Protect what you have left.
You know the condition, the system and the words. This cohort is about saying less and being heard, being ready for emergencies and new faces, and bringing down the cost this has taken on your body. It isn't beginner advice.
- You know your loved one's needs inside out, and you can anticipate, adjust and move the goalposts
- You still freeze, because you're exhausted, not because you don't know
- You've spent years showing up, being dismissed and watching mistakes happen
- In an emergency, with someone who doesn't know the full story, the fear of it happening again takes your words
- You've never once been treated as a key part of the care plan
Your experience is the starting point here, not something to explain again.
Six steps. Each one starts from a room you'll recognise.
S · Steady Care
You've been to hundreds of appointments. One dismissive comment flips your system and the words go.
You build protection for years of hypervigilance, so you can stay in your body when it counts.
T · Truth
One more therapy, one more form, one more 'urgent'. Your system wants to do it all, instantly.
You learn to name the one decision that matters this week, so 2am gets quieter.
E · Essentials
You've been dismissed before, so you bring the whole history. The room still rushes you.
You tighten your language so it lands: say less and still be taken seriously, including with new faces in an emergency.
A · Anchors
Folders, portals, emails and a history that spans years. You're exhausted from repeating it.
You build a short version that still honours the truth, so continuity becomes a boundary, not a burden.
D · Decompress
The crash has become your normal. You function, then pay for it for days.
You design aftercare that protects next week, not just today.
Y · Yourself
You've been the care coordinator for a decade. People assume you'll keep carrying it.
You build language and structures so you're supported, not just relied on.
How Cohort B runs
Six live teaching sessions
Fortnightly from Thursday 5 November 2026, 75 to 90 minutes, with times rotating across timezones.
Live Q&A in between
On the alternate weeks, so you're never more than a week from an answer.
Ten caregivers at your stage
A private community with Michelle, her team and your cohort for all twelve weeks.
Every session recorded
Replays and your cohort community stay open for as long as Oasis runs.
Plus every template: prep sheet, cue cards, continuity kit, aftercare plans and the reset menu. Camera off is welcome, and your story is yours to share as much or as little as feels right.
Take your place in Cohort B
Starts Thursday 5th November 2026 · 10 places
All prices in USD. Your bank converts it to your local currency automatically.
Your capacity is the infrastructure your loved one's care runs on. This is a care decision, and you're allowed to make it for yourself.
When Cohort B has ten caregivers, it closes.
In your first ten years of caring?
Cohort A is built for caregivers in their first ten years. This round has now begun, so join the wait list to hear first when the next one opens. If you're right on the line, choose the one you felt most drawn to as you read, or reply to any of Michelle's emails and her team will help you choose.
Join the Cohort A wait listQuestions you might have
What if I can't make a live session?
Then you watch the replay, and you're still completely part of it. Every session is recorded in full.
Do I have to share my story?
No. Some caregivers share a lot and some mostly listen. Both are welcome.
Is this therapy, or medical or legal advice?
No. Oasis is practical, trauma-aware educational support with tools you build and use in real appointments.