"Caregiving Across Cultures: Respecting Traditions While Meeting Medical Needs"

Welcome back to Radiant Moments, a J and B Podcast!

Today, we’re exploring the intersection of caregiving and culture—how our traditions, languages, values, and family expectations shape how we give and receive care. Whether you’ve felt tension between medical advice and cultural customs or simply want to be more inclusive in your caregiving, this episode is for you.

🌟 Reflecting on Episode 35: The Emotional Weight of Advocacy in Healthcare

Last time, we explored the invisible emotional toll of being an advocate in the healthcare system. If you’ve ever felt exhausted, unheard, or overwhelmed after a medical appointment, I encourage you to revisit Episode 35. It’s a powerful reminder that while advocacy is essential, it also requires rest, compassion, and boundaries. You can listen to it [here].

🎧 Listen to Episode 35 -https://open.spotify.com/episode/4L16CJFmzHm5ktKrUGZFtv?si=d1fa1047089a4a8c

Now, let’s talk about the tools, strategies, and mindset shifts that can make technology your ally—not your eIf you’re looking for even more support on your caregiving journey, know that you don’t have to do it alone—there are tools and resources designed to lift you up, nurture your self-compassion, and help you thrive.

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Caregiving Through a Cultural Lens

Culture isn’t just about holidays or language. It’s about how we define wellness, who makes decisions, what foods we offer for healing, how we honour life transitions, and the roles we play within families.

Sometimes, our cultural values align beautifully with healthcare systems. Other times, they clash, and caregivers are left navigating the middle.

You might be asking:

• What do I do when medical advice contradicts tradition?

• How do I explain sensitive procedures in a culturally respectful way?

• Can I honour my heritage and still advocate for modern care?

These questions don’t have easy answers. But acknowledging them is the first step toward caregiving that is both compassionate and culturally inclusive.

Culture Shapes the Way We Care

Culture influences how we see illness, healing, and support. In some communities, caregiving is a family responsibility passed down through generations. In others, it’s expected that care is outsourced to professionals.

For many of us, culture shapes:

• How we make decisions (individually or collectively)

• How we approach food, rest, and healing

• Whether or not we trust medical professionals

One caregiver shared:

“My mother believed that hot soup restored health, but the hospital only allowed ice chips post-op. I was caught between respect and responsibility.”

This is a perfect example of how the caregiving path is rarely straightforward when culture is involved.

💡 Tip: Acknowledge both experiences. Hold space for family wisdom and professional insight. One doesn’t have to erase the other.

Building Bridges—Not Walls

When culture and medicine collide, communication is key. Start with listening—deeply. What does your loved one believe? What do you believe? Where do your values align or differ?

Once you understand, you can begin to advocate with clarity and compassion.

Try this phrase in medical settings:

“In our culture, it’s important that…”

• “… elders are included in decision-making.”

• “… we have space for prayer.”

• “… certain foods are offered during recovery.”

These simple statements create connection—not conflict—and give your care team valuable context.

Honouring Traditions Without Sacrificing Health

Cultural rituals can live alongside clinical care. It’s not always a question of “either/or.” Sometimes it’s about “both/and.”

Ask:

• Can traditional remedies complement prescribed treatments?

• Can language or customs be integrated into hospital routines?

• Can healing foods or music be brought into the care space?

A Personal Story

In a neonatal intensive care unit (NICU), I witnessed a family torn between urgent medical care and sacred traditions. Privacy wasn’t possible. Elders couldn’t visit. Their grief was compounded by cultural exclusion.

Until one compassionate nurse stepped in.

Together, we coordinated brief windows for blessings, arranged quiet moments, and made space for ritual. The result? Healing—beyond the clinical.

That family left feeling respected. Seen. And the medical staff gained cultural insight that would ripple into future care.

That’s what cultural collaboration looks like in action.

When You Feel Torn

It’s okay to feel torn. Between family and medical advice. Between tradition and modern systems. Between what’s expected and what’s best.

There is no perfect balance. But there is empowerment in acknowledging the tension and choosing from a place of love.

🌟 Affirmation: “I honour my culture while making choices rooted in love, respect, and care.”

Your Cultural Caregiving Challenge

This week, take a moment to reflect on your cultural caregiving values:

✔ What beliefs shape how you give or receive care?

✔ Have you ever felt misunderstood in a medical setting because of culture?

✔ What is one step you can take to bridge that gap?

💡 Try This: Write a one-line note about your loved one’s cultural needs and share it with their care team. Whether it’s about language, food, or family involvement, that insight could change everything.

Coming Up Next: Involving Your Loved One in Care Decisions

Next week, we’re talking about how to include your loved one in care conversations—especially when they can’t always speak for themselves. You’ll learn tools to honour their autonomy with respect and love.

Caregiving across cultures isn’t always simple, but it is sacred. Your role as a bridge-builder is powerful. You are honouring tradition while forging a path forward—and that takes courage.

Until next time—stay radiant, stay empowered, and keep shining your light bright.💛